Monday, November 30, 2009
First Baby Book and other related details....
Well I must say that my hubby is a man of many words - in speech. While I am a woman of many words, it is more so in print. I am fairly less chatty in person (although some friends beg to differ) but really I'd rather observe people than talk up a storm. Alex on the other hand is usually the source of the storm. And this is good. Our differences here balances the equation.
Anyhow, I digress. The point I was trying to make was, although Alex hasn't blogged much, he has made several attempts, evidenced by the fact that I have 3 drafts sitting in my list of posts, none of which exceed 3 sentences :)
This father to be has been a very dedicated father-to-be. I didn't realize how seriously he took the pregnancy until he dragged me to Borders Bookstore one Sunday and was super insistent about buying this book.
Apparently this is the best book to read for expectant families. It has become Alex's duty to read this book, updating me about what to expect throughout the pregnancy on a week to week basis. Having your man involved is great because it gives the man another way to connect with the pregnancy experience through the 9 month period. While men can never experience nor really understand the difficulties of carrying a child, it is good to involve them in the entire saga. This is not only because us women need their emotional and physical support, it also gives them a sense of responsibility plus refreshing the fact that they played a major role in bringing about this bundle of joy.
Alex has been much more serious about our pregnancy than I have been. He has been very strict about me staying away from raw and cold foods. So no sushi, no salads, nothing that has been kept in the open in the fridge, no mayonaise ...etc. One exception - I have been insisting on deli meats because I do so love my cold cuts and he has given in (only for deli meats) as long as I zap them in the microwave first. He has also been making sure I have a sip of water at 11.30pm plus my nightly folic acid supplement without fail even though I kick up a fuss about having to swallow any form of pill. (My mother can tell you how much a pain it is to try and get me to eat supplements. She has been on my case for years about Vitamin C, Evening Primrose Oil, Fish Oil - I actually don't take them at all)
Alex has been very faithful (or I should say stubborn) about making sure I eat the supplements for the sake of the baby's development. He has been waking me up nightly at the same time to take it. You might be wondering why he has to wake me up. Its because I normally crash at 8.30pm while he only sleeps at 11.30pm. So before he gets in bed, he brings up the water plus pill and gives me a quick wake up for them.
Though I'm singing praises about my husband's dedication here, I secretly think he enjoys watching me pout, kick and complain about having to take the folic acid supplement. The thing is FOUL. Tastes absolutely gross. Its a folic acid plus iron supplement and the iron content in the pill makes me feel yuck.
But I guess since he is going to so much trouble in making sure I take the pill, I can easily do my part by just swallowing it :)
cheryl
Friday, November 27, 2009
Pregnancy - Week 6
Wednesday, November 25, 2009
Pregnancy - Week 5
I am feeling a little out of sorts at the moment trying to embrace the new me and the fact that our family will have an extra member really soon. The news is still sinking in. I'm usually quite confident about decisions that I make and am organized about things that I have to get done but in this case of being pregnant, I am feeling rather overwhelmed, very green around the ears and kinda wish I had a software that I could install in my brain called 'All you need to know about pregnancy and children'.
I suppose most of my trepidation comes from the fact that I am in Australia and all I know about raising children is based in Malaysia. Things like health care, maternity stuff, childcare, clothing for changing weather, bedding for changing weather, car seats, capsules, maternity leave, work arrangements, money... all these things are blinking like crazy neon lights in my mind. To say that I feel equipped to raise a child at this moment is wishful thinking but I guess all first time mothers feel the same way?
Anyhow with that said, we had my blood tests done this week. All my health indicators are good. I have a rather high iron level (0.1 higher than the normal range) and best of all my cholesterol level is now at an all time low of 4.8! I am so happy with that result. To explain a little, I am super happy with that result because while I was with Intel my cholesterol level was 6.5 for two years. After the second high reading, I decided to do something about it and started exercising at the gym during my lunch hours. After 4 months, I had another health check and my cholesterol levels had dropped to 5.8 which was a fantastic reward for all my efforts even though the number was still above the healthy range. Since then I had not had another health check but I have kept to some form of weekly exercise. And now its at 4.8! Woohoo! I think it could be stress related. I didnt use to feel stressed while at Intel but I must say that out of 10 colleagues, 7 of us would be diagnosed with high cholesterol. So my conclusion is that our high levels must have been stress related.
As for how I am feeling this week, I am extremely tired when I come home from work at 5pm. I am unwilling to cook, mostly because I have no appetite (and as people who love to eat know, you can't cook a good meal unless you feel the passion and desire to eat it) I struggle to keep my eyes open for a couple more hours because if I fall asleep at 5pm, I would then wake at maybe 3am the next morning and boy, will I pay the price for it the next day. After my very valiant efforts of staying upright, I usually collapse by 8-830pm and sleep till 7am the next day.
There is not much body change other than a lack of appetite for dinner and extreme tiredness for this week. More soon.
Monday, November 23, 2009
A Surprise and The Beginnings of an Adventure
I have been feeling a little odd over the last 2 weeks and the thought of being pregnant snowballed into a huge possiblity when I missed my regular monthly visit from Aunt Flow. Mostly I had being feeling tired, especially at nights when I could barely keep my eyes open once the clock hit 7pm and come 830pm I would have to call it a night. I would come back from work feeling absolutely disinterested in cooking and in food. So those were the initial signs.
The last few days have been slow going and with each passing day my anxiety has been growing. Not just because this possibility was a constant reminder at the back of my mind, but also because I had to adjust doing several new things and taking more responsibility at work all at the same time. I was going to start in a new role at work which required some mental preparation and some form of studying.
So we waited until Alex completed his final paper which so happened to be my first day at work in the new role. We made an appointment to see the doctor. You must be wondering why I didn't have the kit done at home with the urine. Well I figured that if my suspicions were accurate, I would have to go in for a doctors appointment anyway so why not get the confirmation in one hit? If I did the urine test at home, there could be the possibility of doubt. 'Maybe the kit was wrong?'
In we went for the check and the doctor gave us the affirmative news. I must say that the doctor must have thought we were the most reluctant couple he has ever given the news to. Both Alex and I were dumbfounded when he confirmed the news. The momentary silence was so deafening we could have heard a pin drop. It was mostly out of shock I think. Even though we were both prepared for the possibility, actually hearing it from a health professional super super CONFIRMS it. No mistakes there.
Anyways, the doctor has written up a list of basic blood tests that I need to get checked out for and from this day onwards we will be having monthly check ups to make sure everything is going good and on track.
Oh and just for laughs, this is Alex's response to the positive urine test :) It so happens this was the shirt he was wearing that day.
Wish us all the best folks. Its a whole new journey, one much longer than just a flight, a hop and a skip away. This will be a 25 year journey..... We are pregnant!
cheryl
Saturday, November 21, 2009
Penang Food Adventures - Malaysian Kuih
If you reside in Sydney and want to place orders for some kuih, go to Makan at Alice's. They also serve lunch and dinner. The menu looks really good and this is now on my list of places to hit while visiting Sydney.
Thus ends my Penang food ramblings - till February ...
Penang Food Adventures - Best Malaysian Fruit!
We chose a lovely durian of the Ganja variety. Now for those who have had this variety before you would know that its extremely potent. We were warned by the vendor that after having the durian we are to not drink water for at least 10 minutes. If not, you would feel dizzy or a little light headed. Definitely not ideal for driving through the winding steep roads of Balik Pulau.
The stall also sold mangosteens. I love mangosteens. In fact, sometimes I think I love mangosteens more than I love durians. Lovely sweet white flesh encased in a fibrous dark purple casing.
Friday, November 20, 2009
Penang Food Adventures - Old House Cafe
Curiosity got better of me so I talked my parents into having lunch at this new establishment. The prices are a bit on the steep side for regular coffee shop fare but I suppose you are paying the difference for cleanliness, cool comfort and a nice ambience. This would be the place to take customers or visiting friends/relatives for a simple lunch or dinner.
The exterior of the cafe. It is very hard to miss as it is the only stretch of green in a line of pre war buildings.
cheryl
Penang Food Adventures - Hawker Food
Lots of pictures coming up with short comments on where to find these delectable yummies.
This is 'Koay Chiap' - A steaming bowl of flat rice pieces served in a fragrant broth (duck stock) topped with lovely chopped pieces of duck meat, a hard boiled egg (cooked in simmering soy sauce), chopped chives and sometimes coriander. I have returned time and time again to this same stall and this is the only place where I have Koay Chiap. The stall that serves this dish is located at Kimberley Street. Its a small unassuming stall by the roadside with a very quick stream of customers coming and going - only available late evening ~8pm.
This is 'Char Koay Teow' - Flat rice noodles fried up in a hot wok, tossed in the searing heat with fresh, crisp bean sprouts, fried pork fat bits and finished off with an egg. This is also on Kimberley St.
This is 'Yong Tau Foo' - This dish is clear soup dish of Hakka origin containing a variety of vegetables, fish balls, tofu, chili stuffed with fish paste and etc. This particular stall on Kimberley St is like no other Yong Tau Foo stall in Penang. This vendor sells his very satisfying fare from the back of his motorcycle where customers choose the ingredients they want and it is served hot to your table sans the broth. The Yong Tau Foo pieces is topped with fragrant lightly fried garlic oil, sweet sauce and chilli sauce on the side. If you want some of the broth, make a request for it and it will come separately in a smaller bowl.
Part of my food list also included a trip to Balik Pulau to have the infamous Laksa. The name of the coffeeshop is Nan Guang and its right across the street from a T junction, next to the Balik Pulau Market. I can't provide further details as it is located in a remote area of Penang.
The two ladies operating the laksa stall - open for lunch only up to 3pm.
Alex and I enjoying our food. And pardon the KFC on the table :) Mace and Pin had to stop off at KFC first for Alex because he can't have anything spicy so it was just me that enjoyed the laksa.
The hot bowl of 'Laksa' (the picture is of the Assam version) - A fish based soup rice noodle dish with lots of fish bits in the soup made with touches of tamarind, lemongrass and galangal. The noodles are usually garnished with sliced cucumber, pineapple, mint, onions and a dash of prawn paste. This dish has a very distinctive flavour and its not possible to describe it unless you've had it before.
This is 'Mee Goreng' - A spicy Malay noodle fried dish - yellow noodles (sometimes with koay teow) tossed over wok heat with tomato paste, chili, egg and topped with tofu pieces, sliced vegetable, potatoes and cuttlefish.
This is 'Claypot Chicken Rice' - Rice cooked in a claypot over charcoal fire, giving the dish a rustic, barbeque-like, distinctive flavour. Chicken pieces, salted fish, shittake mushrooms and chinese sausage is added to the rice while cooking and an egg is cracked atop the rice at the end stage of cooking. Chives are added as a garnish. This dish is often served with chopped up chillies in soy sauce on the side and in some places with dark soy sauce. This one here is located in a corner lot coffee shop in Pulau Tikus diagonally across the open space car park near the Pulau Tikus market. The owner of the coffee shop has lots of pictures and newspaper clippings hanging on the wall of his son who was a multi win badminton player. I can't remember the name of the shop. Anybody can?
I can't help posting another picture of the claypot chicken rice. Doesn't it look absolutely tempting?
On to my favourite beef noodle stall in Penang.
I often come here for my beef noodle soup. Its a husband and wife team that prepares the noodles. There is an option for rice instead of noodles to be had with the beef soup. They have so many orders going that often it is a wait of 20 minutes before you receive your order. This stall is located in a corner lot coffee shop called 2828 Cafe, on Perak Road right across the street from Salvation Army.
The Beef Soup with Rice. Beef balls, thinly sliced beef and tripe topped with parsley (you can request for no tripe) I prefer it with rice rather than the noodles.
There is a small unassuming coffee shop on Chulia Street that is very well known to have the best 'Siew Bak' - roasted pork belly and 'Char Siew Bak' - sweet barbequed pork in Penang. The stall also serves roast duck and 'cheong' - chinese mixed sausage but the pork is clearly the winner in the pack. The coffee shop is located on the ground floor of Sky Hotel, although called a hotel its more a motel and is diagonally across the street from a Fujifilm green signboard of another shop. This place opens for business at 11am and is well sold out by 1.30pm. That is the best kind of business to have. So be early if you want some of this delicious pork.
It is a family run business and here is a picture of the father holding a cleaver, masterfully chopping up servings of pork for the long list of customers.
Take a closer look at the goodies on offer... imagine all of that being sold in just 2.5 hours!
Each order of meat with rice comes with a simple vegetable and lean pork meat soup. This is lightly salted and very appetizing. It is the beginning of better things to come.
I was so excited when the meat arrived. Roasted Pork Belly on the left and Chinese Mixed Sausage on the right. It was simply presented, no garnishes, no artistic flair in the layout but hey ho... put a piece of that in your mouth and its ooohhh... transported to pork heaven.
This is the Sweet Barbequed Pork. Also tremendously good. The lightly black charred bits add an extra dimension to the taste of the pork. I must say though that after having all that pork, the oil content did get a little to me. However it was nothing that a good ice cold glass of lemon juice couldn't fix!
I'm glad we are going back to Penang for a holiday in 2 months. Penangites are very lucky to have so much good food available just at their doorstep. Now that I'm far away I truly appreciate the convenience of it all. With such great fare in so many locations its no wonder that Penang is often called a food haven.
More food talk coming up...
cheryl
Thursday, November 19, 2009
My Current Favourite Advertisement
Have you ever given thought as to how any different types of milk products there are on an average milk shelf at the store? The variety of names given to the simple milk is enough to confuse even a genius.
This is my current favourite ad.
I wonder how long the lady took to memorize her lines. Hats off to her for pulling it off! I rather enjoyed the bit where she casts a condescending look at the man's belly saying, " And only 2% fat."
Love the ad, bought the milk and still buying the milk :) Now when will they make a simplified ad like this for a smarter insurance ad?
cheryl
Saturday, November 14, 2009
Hacked!
This was the sequence of events.
For the past 2 weeks I have noticed that several Facebook accounts of my acquaintances had been hacked and the perpetrator puts up status updates promoting dieting pills/drugs on certain webpages. It was then I thought to myself, " Imagine if this happened to me, what would I have to do ensure my information on my laptop is safe?" Then I thought, " Nah, it won't happen to me. I don't download anything. I only check my emails, go on FB, update my blog and read other blogs. I should be safe." Talk about premonition and how wrong I was!
Yesterday 13 Nov, I was out for lunch and had left my mobile phone at home. I was at work first half of the morning and luckily, had the afternoon off. After lunch I returned home to find that my mobile was exploding with missed calls and sms-es. I checked the message and to my horror found out that my FB had been compromised and the perp had posted unlawful, disgusting content on my photo albums. I rushed to my laptop to log on and couldn't because the password had been changed.
This thrust me into full panic mode because my log on email account on FB (Gmail) shares the same password as my Gmail account itself. What this means (if you havent linked the two together) is that if I reset the password on my FB, I still could not get to that new password because the idiot had also changed my password on the email account that the new password was sent to. To that effect, I would not be able to remove the content off FB as quick as I would like and my good name would have been tarnished for a long time. The quicker the content was removed, the fewer the people that would have seen it.
The wheels on my brain started turning and I recalled the backup email account that I used for my Gmail. I have a different password there so I had to reset the password on Gmail, get the new password from the other email account and from there sign into Gmail, change the password, get the new password for FB, sign into FB and change my password there. From there, the content was deleted.
The idiot who hacked my account also accepted a long list of pending friend requests, 30 to be exact, many of whom I wasn't keen on accepting in the first place. I do not know what other changes he had made to my account while he had it in his control and I didn't have time to look fully into it last night. I am glad to say however that he only had the FB account pliable in his hands for 1hour 20 minutes before I regained control and changed the password.
I am really glad that I got the notification from friends about the situation at 2pm and also the fact that it happened on a day that I had half a day off. Another key point was that I had plans to leave the house for a girls afternoon/evening out at 3pm. If the situation were any different, I would not have known about the breach and the trouble caused would have been more significant. It took me all but 20 minutes to fix the issue, leaving me with only 5 minutes to spare before I had to go out for the night. So I thank God it was all in good timing. Any other day... the incident would be 'anxiety attack' worthy.
However when I returned that night, I got another message from a friend that my Friendster account had been compromised as well. My Friendster account has been dormant for 2.5 years. The existence of that account did not cross my mind earlier in the day and when reading that message, I slapped my head a couple of times saying,"Cheryl you fool... it had the same password. You set it up during your days as a student! How can you forget??"
After fixing that up, I was hell bent on finding out how this happened to me. As mentioned before, I do not download music or videos or much off the web. And my password is very strong and is 10 alpha numeric characters long. To get my password, it had to be a keystroke logger with a backdoor. So how could it be that a keystroke logger could have attached itself to my system?
I put on Sherlock Holmes cap and started tracking the source of the hack. Breadcrumb by breadcrumb, page by page, the picture started becoming clear to me. The source of the hack turned out to be an old student email account in University of Canberra which ceased to be operational since I left the uni. That was 6 years ago! It was not to my knowledge that details of email account would still be kept by the university. It is my assumption that details of the address book were still kept in that account and it was through it that my email accounts were compromised. Who know's what other information in my student folder has been compromised as well! Prayer is now necessary that the info is not misused in any other way. It would not be good to have a fake Cheryl going around with my ID.
So do not be naive like me, assuming that your student details are kept safe by your university or that they would delete unnecessary student information after your departure. If it could happen to me after 6 years, it could happen to anyone even after 10.
I am relieved that it was not spyware on my laptop that opened a door for the hack. Because if so, I would be very worried about my bank details as I had just completed a transfer of funds that morning itself. I would also be very concerned about how much info has been leaked through my laptop to the hacker (as I have all sorts of personal info stored on the HD) not knowing how long the back door has been there.
In short, the sequence of the hack was this.
Uni email - Yahoo - Friendster- Gmail - Facebook
And in conclusion, if you received any email from me from those accounts on the 13th November 2009, they are NOT me. It must have been some idiots idea of a Friday the 13th prank.
Very angry, I am.
cheryl